There are men who are able to get a date easily while there are guys who struggle a lot and finally end up getting a date with a girl. In all the cases, dating is a complex affair for a guy.
Most of the men look at it this way, this is the first shot of a long-term relationship. Most of the guys look at this as a chance to impress the girl in all the ways they can. They think of what to wear so not to look boring or weird, for each dress they try, they will think of what the girl would think of them when the girl they are about to date see them in that costume.
They make a lot of plans about how to start the conversation, make a list of questions to ask and how to end the conversation.
At every time they text on whatsapp or any other messaging app, or whenever the guys make a phone- call, most of the guys will have some tension in their minds, like will she think of me as a flirt. Most of the time, the guys try to select a costly restaurant for their date. And many of the times, the guys don’t care if it is not in his budget. They will arrange the money from some of their friends or someone and select the perfect place for a date. They do all these just to make sure that the girls do not take them as a loser.
So why do guys do all these crazy things? Actually, what does dating mean to a guy? For guys, dating is the first step for a relationship. And a relationship with someone special is something that every guy craves for. So, if a girl has accepted a guy’s invitation for a date, he will plan of many things ahead. He will plan of many things in the days to come.
So, one advice here would be don’t rush it up. Because, sometimes rushing things can ruin it. A date is more like the first step to knowing the person better. The progress of a dating stage to a healthy relationship happens once you get to know the other person well. This will happen after many dates. When you meet for many times and start spending time together, you will unknowingly know the other person better.
So, one advice for the guys is not to rush things or plan too many things. Yes, first impression is important and you need to impress the girl. But, don’t do it by faking yourself.